KNOW YOUR SELF !

 Every one of us is special. And each  of  us is endowed with some abilities in abundant measure .

At the same time we lack some other abilities. Knowledge of our strength and weakness is crucial.

Know  thyself. 

                                               

    Some jobs require certain abilities in abundant measure.For ,instance a singer needs a good voice, 

  But a scientist does not.A pilot needs clear eyesight where as a singer does not need. A chess player 

  should have sharp memory but an athlete can win a gold metal in olympics with limited memory

   power.         

Before you choose your ambition ,you should necessarily follow the procedure,

     *Make an assessment of your abilities.

    *Gather information about the competing ambitions .

    *Understand your likes and dislikes .

    * Feel your desire. 

   *Choose your ambition.  

You should sit in a calm place and make an unbiased evaluation of yourself,

    Who am i?

    what do i want?

  What are my strengths?

 What are my weakness ?

 How strong is my physique?

What are my physical ailments?

How powerful is my memory? 

What are my likes?

What are dislikes?

What are my accomplishments?

What are my failures?

What can give me happiness - money,recognition,power,achievement or success? 

Be brutally honest with yourself .Be ruthless when it is the question of your likes and dislikes.abilities

and inabilities. If you have a poor memory,admit it .If you are not  fair and tall, understand it.None is 

perfect in this world .Moreover , for very great achievements ,it is not necessary  that should posses all 

these qualities.For instance ,to win a noble prize ,you need not be tall and handsome. But nonetheless, 

make the assessment of your abilities sincerely . The idea is that you should be able to enjoy the job 

that you are going to choose .You can find pleasure in your job is of your liking and you have the  

required ability to do that job.

   it is even possible to be a public speaker with a stammer,but it takes extraordinary efforts. You should

 know that it is your  deliberate choice and you should enjoy the many futile attempts  that you  have to 

make before you are recognized as an electrifying speaker. After knowing your strengths and

 weaknesses    collect information about the competing ambitions.                                               

BE PASSIONATE ABOUT AMBITION

 When you have a passion ,you are attracted towards that ambition .  You will be eager to know all about it  If your ambition is to become an architect , every fact about a building will fascinate you. You will take a second look at  each building and study its salient features.In short, you will be oriented towards your goal.                                   LIKE ATTRACTS THE LIKE 

  Having chosen your ambition ,feel it. If you like to become a doctor ,assume that you are a doctor  ,

that too  renowned doctor. Feel like a doctor ,as if you are treating many patients every day.Imagine 

the some of yourself walking in the corridor of you own hospital or think of conducting a difficult 

surgery. Look at the smile on the face of the patient whose life you have just saved.  It feels great to be

a doctor!

This feeling should motive you.you should be aware of your ambition every moment  of your life  

consciously and sub-consciously .All your behaviour will be modified to suit the description of your

 proposed  personality. 

Image how great it will be a NASA scientist .How great it  feels when you land on the earth after a 

space walk! How does success taste when people greet you on your arrival to India after a long stay 

in the space? 

Your are the state topper in the plus  2 examination. The news channels are telecasting your interview 

and people all over the world are watching it.How do you feel? 

Know your ambition; feel your ambition;declare your ambition and live your ambition. 

         "ONE DAY YOU ARE GOING TO BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BECOME"

BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR DREAMS !

 An angle appeared before a man and asked what he wanted? The man said that he wanted a bag full of

 money ,a big vehicle and many women.The angle made him a conductor!

You should know what  exactly you want.Don't  say I want a lot of money .What do you mean by  saying 'a lot of money'?Is ten thousand rupees a month?Is it fifty thousand  rupees a month? Is it one lakh rupees a month?Be specific, because, WHATEVER YOU DESIRE,YOU  WILL GET IT.

Indra Nooyi  ,  chennai - born girl is the chief executive officer of Pepsi company.she is drawing a 

 salary  of 55 crores of Indian  rupees a year. she wanted to draw such a huge salary , and  hence she is 

receiving it. If she desired just five lakh rupees a year ,she would have got  just that.Therefore  be  clear

clear about what you want .

 *    Two brothers were working in a cycle workshop.  

*  They wanted to fly on a machine .

* people ridiculed them, many thought that it was not impossible .

                             

*But the brothers succeeded ultimately  and announced a public demonstration of flying  machine in 

 kitty hock on 17 th december 1903. 

* A local newspaper carried the comment " They are not flying brothers, they are lying brothers".

* But  The brothers  wilbur wright and oliver wright flew a machine for 120 feet at a height of 6 feet 

 for 12 seconds in full view of the public. 

* They invented the aeroplane.

                                         

         YOU SHOULD BE SPECIFIC ABOUT YOUR OBJECTIVES

How To OverCome Fear?

 It is obvious that we can't gain confidence as long as we have fear.There,we need to overcome fear .

How can we overcome fear?

*Always think of those activities you have successfully completed:

                                                                          1. You have learnt to ride a bicycle  ,or drive a motorcycle ,haven't you?

   2. you have drawn a picture that was appreciated by the drawing master  ,haven't you? 

   3. you had once participated in a runing race and won a prize,didn't you?

  4. once you were topper in the class test,weren't you?

 5. once you scored 100 marks in the mathematics,didn't you?

 5. how did you accomplish these feats?

if you could do done ,you can do it again and again.

THERE IS A JAPANESE SAYING :

                                                  "if there can do it, i too can do it,

                     if others can't do it,i must do it"

*DO THE ACT THAT YOU SCARED OF THE MOST:

                                                                     if you scared of talking on the stage ,do it in the next

 week school assembly;or take part in the next oratorical competition .If you fear a dog,then buy  

 puppy and rear it at home;you will have no more fear of a dog .If you are scared of memorizing a

 poem,do it even if it takes the whole day .Fear will vanish like a mist before the morning sun

*MEET THE PEOPLE WHO HAD OVERCOME THE FEAR OF THE ACT YOU FEAR THE MOST:  

               If you fear the ambition of becoming the topper in  the school,meet the last year topper

 and discuss  the secrets of her success.When you have an interaction with her you will realize

 that she is an ordinary you are. If you fear IIT-JEE ,meet a successful candidate ,and talk to

 him.You will realize that he had overcome his fears .

                        

*READ THE BIOGRAPHIES OF  GREAT PEOPLE :

                             Like Mahatma Gandhi,Abraham Lincoln,

     Napoleon Bonaparte ,and Sir Isaac Newton.There are highly

    motivating.Great achievers like Thomas Alva Edison ,Helen Keller,

    Louise Pasteur ,Beethoven and Louie Braille have struggled

   against their limitations and made great contributions.you get

  confidence and gain momentum after reading the moving accounts of

  their rags to riches stories . 

*BREAK UP THE TASK:

         

                  There is a proverb in Malayalam that you can eat

 even a palm tree,if you eat slowly .If you are scoring 60% in a

 subject ,set your target at 75% in the next term,what won't scare

 you.But once you attained 75%, raise the bar to 85% for the half

 yearly examination,and aim at 95% for the final examination.By doing

 so you will not be frightened by the huge target;and it will look

 like a surmountable hill.

* WE SHOULD FIND OUT THE CAUSE OF FEAR AND REMOVE THE CAUSE:

                              If a boy had an experience of an electric shock,he may even fear to touch a switchboard .The cause of fear should be addressed.He should be asked to switch on the light repeatedly till overcome  the fear .Some self-improvement experts make people to walk on fire-fire walking to overcome fear.In fact,this is a practice in the south Indian Mari Amman temples for ages.Perhaps this is an excercise to banish fear.

      

IF YOU ARE AFRAID , YOU ARE HALF-DEAD

                                   -Mahatma Gandhi.

Latest thought, overthinking out

 In This World Most Of Them Affected By  Overthinking,In The survey 53% of women and 43% of women Affected.

I want to Ask You 3 Some Questions,

                                                       ❤  Have You Wonder Why You Think Like This? 

                                                        ❤   How Many Hour Per day do you think it?

                                                                           

                                                         ❤  Have You Ever Thought Your present life is affected by your 

                             overthinking?

"SPEND EIGHTY PERCENT OF YOUR TIE FOCUSING ON THE OPPORTUNITIES OF TOMMOROW RATHER THAN THE PROBLEM OF YESTERDAY"

                                                                                    _BRAIN TRACY

Physical Effects of overthinking:

                                                  *    Symptom of mental,health issue like depression or anxiety.  

                                                   

                                                  *     Dry mouth

                                                   *    Headaches

                                                 *      Inability to Concentrate

                                                  *     Fast  Heartbeat

                                                   *    Dizzines 

 One Small Story ;

                               A girl studying in a school. that did'nt enjoy the school life.that girl life is  going like

 that.that's how school days end at one day. then she join a college. she regrets not being  able to enjoy

 school  days even after she goes to college. she think about the same think over and over again. at the

 same time she think  about the future . she is wasting her present life   thinking of everythingthat could

 have happend like this ,when it happend.that girl life going like this .one day her college days also end

 but she  could'nt achieve anything. what the reason she not achieve anything in her life?  the storngest

 reason is overthinking.

                                   thinking is good but too much thinking is a disease.

WHAT CAN I TELL YOU FROM THIS STORY?  in your past life you met a lot of problems .in future

 you are going to meet a  problems. in the present  you are still dealing with problem. in the past,

 present , future this include all  of the issue you have encounterd. you will be present in  the time or

 moment  .all your problems will be solved.

YOU DID'NT PRESENT AT THE TIME? 

                                                                           I mean you are in the illusion world ,you can't  take the

 right decision(in our life even a samll decisions gives a big changes) .again you are going think that

 problem  then automatically gone a illusion world.

DID YOU PRESENT AT THE TIME?  

                                             you don't need to worry about  future .

DID YOU DO EVERYTHING LIKE THIS? 

                                                               you will not regret what happend thier  past .beacuse she present

 at the moment  .so her past  was beautifully and happy.

WHY DID I SAY THIS? DID YOU PRESENT AT THE MOMENT LIKE THIS? YOUR PAST ,PRESENT AND FUTURE  ARE ABLE TO COME RIGHT.

                                                                 

                                                                       

 CONCEPT OF THE STORY IS : everything happend in the present moment( the problem happend 

 may be in past  ) but  that time we are in the present so we can solve that problem. our life past moment

 would come happiest jouney.  

 

3  simple projects of our life:

                                            past   = finshied project .

                                      present    = runing project .

                 

                                     Future      = going to do the project.

Above 3 projects are their our life, no matter any thing  happend or going to happen or  now you are

 facing any thing. that moment you presence of mind(present) is more important.did you present at that

 time,you don't need to worryabout your past,present and future life. 

HOW TO OVERCOME FROM OVERTHINKIG,  HERE SOME WAYS FOR YOU;

                        

                                                                          ❤    Try to control your mind 

                                                                           ❤  Challenge you thoughts

                                                                         ❤     Volunteering with a local oraganization

                                                                        

                                                                         ❤      keep the focusing on what you really want

                                                                         ❤     Take up a new hobby like painting,dancing,reading

books etc...

                                                                           ❤   doing yoga is the best overcome from thinking  

                                                                            ❤    Hearing some songs.

In geocology says  take new scheculde for 21 days for your success or overcome from a habit defintiely change.

take a 21 days challenge for overcome from thinking do above all these,defintiely  overcome .your will be happy soon.   

        believe me no matter what happens in your life don't think too much about it. 

                                              STOP THINKING AND START LIVING .....

TAKE TIME TO DELIBERATE ,BUT WHEN THE TIME FOR ACTION  HAS ARRIVED ,STOP

 THINKING AND GO IN .  

                                          _NAPOLEAN BONAPARTE.